The Five of Cups carries the energy of the sacred first-turning-sister — the one who has lost something dear, has grieved it honestly, and is beginning, slowly, to turn toward what remains. She belongs to the suit of Cups, the suit of water, feeling, and love. In the Five, the cups are tipped: something has spilled, and the heart is sore.
The Five of Cups does not, faithfully, mean wallowing or failure. At her best she is the woman who lets herself cry, and then looks up. She is grief honored and then gently released — the moment the heart realizes that not everything was lost. Two cups still stand behind her. A bridge still leads home.
The Five of Cups is linked to Mars in Scorpio, and today the Sun travels through Scorpio while the Last Quarter Moon in Leo asks us to release. On Samhain, the first morning of the old new year, few cards could speak more tenderly of loss and turning.