Today I give thanks for the small unremarkable treasures of an ordinary life — the ones that have, in fact, been accumulating around me, faithfully, for years, without my needing to do anything to deserve them. The familiar cup that has, in fact, been in my hand for many mornings. The worn book on the shelf I have read into and out of countless times. The corner of the room where the afternoon light arrives reliably. The small ordinary objects that have, faithfully, accompanied me through long ordinary years — the lamp, the chair, the photograph, the small bowl, the well-loved garment. The Taurean wisdom — which the moon today, settled deep in her own sign two days before new, makes particularly accessible — is that the small ordinary treasures of a life accumulate, in fact, by long faithful presence rather than by acquisition. The objects that matter most in any actual lived life are, in fact, not the ones we deliberately collect; they are the ones that have, somehow, quietly become beloved through the simple repetition of our ordinary days with them. Today I give thanks for the small unremarkable treasures. For the cup. For the book. For the chair. For the corner. For the familiar gesture I perform without thinking. For the way the light arrives, faithfully, at this hour. The treasures have been here all along. The gratitude is for the slow recognition, today, of the long quiet accumulation of beloved-ness that an ordinary embodied life has, faithfully, been gathering on my behalf.
I give thanks for the long quiet accumulation of what the faithful years have, in fact, been growing in me without my noticing. The skill I now possess, which I did not, in fact, have ten years ago, and which arrived not through dramatic acquisition but through the patient repetition of ordinary practice across many ordinary days. The friendship that has, in fact, deepened through countless small unremarkable conversations into the kind of belonging I could not, in fact, have created on purpose. The way I move through grief or joy or change now, which is, in fact, different from how I moved through them a decade ago, because the body has been quietly learning, faithfully, through every small ordinary passage. The most important growth in any actual human life is, in fact, almost never the growth we are deliberately cultivating. She is, almost always, the slow accumulation we did not, in fact, notice happening — the patient ripening of capacities, relationships, understandings, and ways of being that the faithful labor of many ordinary days quietly accomplishes while we are focused, in fact, on something else. Today I give thanks for what has been growing without my noticing. For the slow ripening that has been faithfully underway in my life across the long quiet years. For the abilities I now have that I did not, in fact, ask for. For the depth I now carry that arrived not through demand but through patient ordinary living. The garden has been growing all along. The gratitude is for the long faithful labor of the ordinary days that have, in fact, made me what I am, almost without my permission and entirely without my having to engineer the result.